Since there is so much excitement and promise for the New Year, it is the perfect time to start dating again (or start dating more). Remember, the most important aspect to dating and meeting new people is to just HAVE FUN! Letting go of negative emotions, fear of the unknown or rejection, and keeping a positive mind frame and staying open to trying new things will get you far in finding the man or woman of your dreams.
Don’t be afraid of online dating. Online dating is a wonderful option for different types of people - the people who are just too busy, haven't had luck with friends setting them up, or even just looking for a new perspective on dating. The post-Christmas period is the busiest time of year for internet dating sites, so there are more chances for you to meet a really fun, exciting new date. So get out there and have some fun!
Again, it is important to HAVE FUN on your date. For example, coffee dates are not much fun because they tend to be “interview dates” (you know, when it feels more like an interview than a date). Instead, try going to an event or do activity together for your first date. Some great date ideas include: First Friday Oakland – Street Art, Culture, Food and Entertainment, an afternoon at the Yerba Buena Center for the Arts, or just some casual outdoor swing dance with Lindy in the Park. Our events page is a great place to get ideas for events! When you’re doing something you enjoy, you’re more relaxed and you can be more yourself. You can get to know the other person for who they really are, and they you. In the end, even if you two decide not to go on a second date, at least you did something fun. That’s how dating should be – enjoyed!
Melanie
Social Instigator